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You
may have read the newspaper articles
about the work of Chernobyl Children Life Line or perhaps you have listened to
someone from a local link of the charity giving a talk to a Rotary club, women’s
guild or some other organisation about what we are trying to achieve. Perhaps
you may have met some of the “Chernobyl” children during their visit to your
local area or a friend, relative or neighbour is involved with the charity. You
have become sufficiently interested in Chernobyl Children's Life Line that you are
browsing the web for more information and you are probably asking yourselves –
Could we become a host family? What is involved? What are we letting
ourselves in for !!!
What is a Chernobyl
Child?
Every child in Belarus is a deserving
child, regardless of social background and family circumstances. Belarus is a
developing country that has suffered most from the fall-out caused by the
Chernobyl nuclear accident in 1986.
Many of the children who come to the UK
may appear normal and healthy, but they are all subjected to the effects
of radiation, and that is increasingly obvious by the numbers of children born
with deformities, or suffering from cancers and other radiation related
illnesses. Their plight is often worsened by lack of medical facilities,
contaminated food, shortage of medicines, lack of nutrition, poor and over
crowded living conditions, unemployment, and difficult family
circumstances.
Each child will be different, but few
will have enjoyed the comforts and facilities we take so much for granted. Many
of the children will have been uprooted from the countryside because of
radiation problems and relocated in towns, living in overcrowded flats in tower
blocks. They may not be too familiar with the concept of privacy and may appear
fussy about their food because of stomach problems.
Belarusian people are proud and the
children may not like to admit to shortages or lack of facilities (some may even
exaggerate about what they do have). What is certain, is that the parents and
guardians of these children are desperate to send their children abroad for this
once in a lifetime opportunity to come to the UK for a months respite care where
they can benefit from good, uncontaminated food, clean water, fresh air, and a
chance for respite from all these concerns and difficulties.
Doctors and scientists are now also
discovering that many of the children are not only battling thyroid cancer and
leukaemia as a result of the Chernobyl disaster, but are now finding that they
are ingesting so much contamination there is a steep rise in reported cases of
intestinal cancers and heart defects. Post mortem examinations on children are
revealing that their organs resemble those of 70-year old people rather than
young children.
Police checking of host
families
Our charity is no different from any
other organisation that deals with children or vulnerable adults. All our host
families have to be police checked, after all, would you send your own children
to a foreign country to live with total strangers for a month without knowing
the family was of good character.
The position of the Plymouth &
District Link of
Chernobyl Children Life Line is that all prospective host families, support
families and others, such as drivers, who have contact with the children will
require a enhanced disclosure certificate from The Criminal Records Bureau. This
will be requested on their behalf by the Plymouth & District Link and will not incur any
financial outlay, only the completion of the application form. More information
on the Disclosure process may be found on their website www.crb.gov.uk
Host families
Host families come in all shapes and
sizes from families with young children of their own, single parents, working
couples to retired couples whose children have long flown the nest. The only
exception is single males who will not be considered as host parents because of
the rules of the charity.
Being a host parent to a child from
perhaps a rural area of Belarus can be hard work but also very rewarding. Their
way of life in Belarus is totally different from ours and living with a host
family that takes for granted such things as running water, hot baths and
showers, flush toilets, central heating, television, etc, etc, can be rather a
culture shock to them. The children, however, soon settle in and begin enjoying
all these western “luxuries”.
Language
One of the most frequently asked
questions is about language. Communication is NOT the major problem
people imagine. Miming and signing can get the message over, often with much
hilarity on both sides, and quite quickly the children start to pick up words
and phrases in English as we do words and phrases in Russian. Each group of
children has a leader/interpreter who is always available to sort out minor
problems or misunderstandings and for visits to the dentist or optician where
language is important.
Clothing
When the children arrive in this
country many of them arrive with little in the way of clothes. A few clothes in
a small holdall or a bin liner and feet crammed into shoes, which they have long
outgrown, is not an uncommon sight at the airport. This is a direct result of
the economic situation in Belarus, which is grim, and results in many families
struggling to survive on a monthly wage that is often less than the equivalent
of US$50.
Although the children arrive with
little, we make sure they take advantage of their 30kg luggage allowance on the
return journey, returning home laden with clothes for their brothers, sisters
and parents from what has been collected or donated.
Activities
A wide and varied programme of events
and outings is arranged for the children during their visit. Swimming, horse
riding, ten pin bowling, beach barbeques (many of the children have never been
to the seaside !) visits to places of interest, go karting, etc ,etc are all
regular favourites. The main reason that the children are here is to get away
from the contamination in Belarus for a month and have a “health break” that
will improve their general health. As far as the children are concerned they
return home having enjoyed a holiday they will never forget.
Returning Home
A word of warning to all prospective
host parents – When these children return home to their families in Belarus it
is hard to say goodbye. They have become very much part of your family
over the past four weeks and many friendships have been made. Most of the
children return home looking much healthier than when they arrived and this is a
constant source of satisfaction for us in the Plymouth & District Link.
When host families receive letters
from the families of the children in Belarus it is also very apparent how much
their parents appreciate everything that has been done for their children in
this country.
Still Interested ????If you are interested in becoming a
host family, a support family or would like to help in any way please contact us
by clicking here or telephone either of the following
numbers for an informal chat.
The
chairperson for Sunflowers is Joanne
Stephens. 01752 513458
Secretary
is
Vanessa Donoghue
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